Conversations with T

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Taylor has been home from the hospital for over three weeks, and his days are filled with many different things from cooking, to music, to family-time to piles of dogs and lots of laughter.

It’s time for some of Taylor’s thoughts on the matter, so we are doing this entry in an interview-style format.

I would like to preface this interview by saying that this was a slow process – we sat for about an hour to pull this together, but they are all Taylor’s words.

L: “What kinds of stuff do you do in the day?”
T:  “Watch Big Bang Theory, House, Colbert, hang out with family, talk to my dad on the phone a lot.”

L:  “You have therapists coming to the house to work with you right now.  Do you like them coming to the home, or do you prefer to go to them?”
T: “I like them to come to me.”

L: “Why?”
T:  “Less stress, and it’s more convenient.”

L:  Tell me about the kinds of activities and equipment you have at the “Briles Therapy House.”  (The house we live in right now.)
T:   “The big ball for balance, weights,  games, guitar, piano…lots of stuff.”  “We came up with a climbing rope with knots about four feet apart – tied one end to a rack in the bathroom, and the other end is tied to my bed, so I can get back and forth with less help, until I can see better.”

L:  “What else do you do independently?”
T:  “Bathroom, shower, brushing my teeth, washing hands and face, etc.”

L:  “Why can’t you do everything independently right now?”
T:  “I can’t see very well.”

L:  “What do you know about your upcoming surgery?”
T:  “They are going to fix my face.  My eyes, my jaw, my mouth.”

L:  “Are you nervous about it?”
T:  “uh-uh.  No.”

L:  “Nothing to be nervous about?”
T:  “No.”

L:  “Some folks might be nervous if they had a surgery like that coming.  Why are you not afraid?”
T:  “Knowing my surgeons well.  God.  He hasn’t let me down yet.  God loves me. And he has awesome angels that can keep me on track.”

L:  “Do you feel angels around you?”
T:  “Yes.”

L:  “Do you feel God around you?”
T:  “Yes.”

L:  “How?”
T:  “I just know.”

L:  “Do you feel blessed?”
T:  “Yes.”

L:  “In what way?”
T:  “Every way.”  Then after much thought he added:    “I’m alive.  Friends and family.  A kick-ass team of doctors.”

L: “Anything that you would like everyone to know?”
T:   Without hesitation  “I’m gonna be fine.”

“Thanks for being there for me.”

“It means a lot.”

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